Extracts from the article Cognitive Behavioural Therapy Saved My Life by Dena.
Every single person experiences negative, irrational thoughts to some degree. But what varies from person to person is the frequency and the intensity of these thoughts. Taking control of your thoughts will enable you to obtain emotional freedom and to live a life of peace and joy.
“The present moment is the still point around which the universe arises and subsides, only to be reborn again, fresh as a new born child.” —Deepak Chopra
First you have to recognize two types of thoughts: negative-irrational and positive-rational. Here are some examples.
a. It is raining out this morning. I am definitely going to have a bad day.
b. My parents are on the verge of losing their house. This is all my fault. I should have never been born.
c. That guy just hit my bumper. Just my luck. I can’t afford this. I’m going to be late for work. I’m going to get fired. Bad things always happen to me. I am doomed.
a. It is raining out this morning. Good thing, the flowers really need the water.
b. I am sad about my parents financial situation. I am grateful that I have been such a good daughter. I will give them love and support but I will also recognize that their problems are not my own.
c. That guy just hit my bumper. Thank God I am not hurt and we were both doing the speed limit. This could have been a lot worse.
Negative thoughts like the ones above might not be debilitating but when a person becomes consumed by such thoughts, mental illness thrives.
*Every time you start to feel anxious or depressed, write down the thoughts that pass through your mind.
*Later, analyze these thoughts. How many of them are NI? Change the NI thoughts into positive, rational ones. Write down the positive rational ones.
With time, patience, and practice it gets easier and easier. One day you will wake up and find yourself automatically changing your NI thoughts into positive, rational ones. You will have taken back control of your mind. It really is that simple. Most people have no idea what an impact the human mind has. We can not conceive that negative thought processes are capable of ruining our lives, our spirits, and our bodies — but they are! With CBT you will stop the cycle.
“As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence actually liberates others.” —Marianne Williamson
Your life of freedom, peace, and joy is waiting for you. Get on the path. Begin your journey now.”
Author: Dena. Read the full article here…